Portraits of Perseverance

One of my favorite pastimes as a college student in Santa Barbara was strolling down sunny State Street lined with antique shops. As the aspiring hipsters we were, my friends and I would visit each one in hopes of scoring a vintage flannel or finding retro décor for our apartments. At the very back of each store I would find, without fail, a basket of old photographs. Among all the prized possessions for sale, no one ever seemed to sift through the baskets of unfamiliar Kodak portraits. After-all, why would anyone care to see a stranger’s family photos?

In the last week, MesoPortrayal launched a social media campaign calling for submissions of old family photos, specifically the trendiest à la mode moments that showcase the best of pre millennium life. Using the hashtag #MesoMode, nearly 700 photos were shared in just 3 days. From striking a pose on the boulevards of 1970s Tehran to smoking a cigarette in a 1960s Baghdad ballroom, the collective of memories captures a generation of Assyrians who lived by the mode of the moment. Mode, a french loan word, is colloquially used in the middle east to mean “in fashion and up to date”. Which is exactly how to describe the beehives and bell bottoms on display in the collection of photographs.

The virtual campaign seemed to have an immediate and visceral reaction for many. Messages of support poured in while followers shared background stories to the photos they had uploaded. The teenagers dancing khigga were revealed to be in Greece, where they had just met one another as they awaited the fate of their visa applications. The awkward couple sharing a bench was on their first date, and were arrested shortly after the picture was taken for being an unwed couple displaying affection in post revolutionary Iran. Other photos captured an air of celebration, from a hopeful pupil graduating as an engineer in Iraq to a glamorous woman enjoying a European holiday. No matter the occasion, each photo seems laced with elegance and poise; with a civility that feels lost to the previous century. 

Beyond the immediate novelty of women in vintage mini skirts and men sporting super-wide lapels, what was it about the photographs that compelled thousands to consume them? Aside from a few close friends who took part in the challenge, the majority of the faces and families were unknown to me. They should have been ignored as easily as the anonymous basket of photos at the antique store – but instead I was mesmerized by each one. The subjects felt less like strangers and more like long lost relatives beckoning to be known. 

By now we have been conditioned to understand why representation matters in media, that accurately depicting society’s diverse voices empowers minorities and creates a sense of belonging for all. That sense of belonging is a privilege that Assyrians have rarely been afforded. An ultra minority nation without a state, Assyrians have grown accustomed to never hearing their stories told or seeing their faces reflected back to them. In fact many prefer this lack of representation, because whenever our homelands are discussed, it is rarely in a favorable light. In the modern imagination, the words Iraq, Iran, Syria, or Turkey conjure war torn news clips or orientalist scenes from Hollywood films. Yet in the Assyrian lived experience, the same words recall memories of chic banquets, bustling universities, and modernity. Perhaps this is why the #MesoMode photos resonated with so many, it was a rare instance of representation where stories were told by and for Assyrians. Stories not of invasion or explosions, but of romance and passion for life. The positive narrative of a region which suffers from horrible PR is a breathe of fresh air that we want to cling to and affirm to ourselves.

If a picture is worth a thousand words, then novels of Assyrian stories were written online this week. Each story shared is unique and steeped in family history, yet they are all bound together by the defining trait of resilience. When enjoying the photos of fashionable ladies and dapper gentlemen, it is easy to forget that the decades when most of the photos were taken had been extremely tumultuous for Assyrians world wide. While many communities experienced a fleeting “golden age” of civil society in the 50s, 60s and 70s, it would soon come to an end as religious extremism, political instability, and war enveloped the region – leading hundreds of thousands of men and women wearing firmly creased slacks and delicate silhouettes to pack up and leave home. Location tags quietly tell the story of immigration in the posts, as captions for “Tigris River” change into “Amsterdam Canals” and later “Chicago”. But this collection of photographs isn’t about the pain of saying goodbye, it is about getting dressed for the journey and celebrating along the way. 

One photo that stands out is a portrait of a family celebrating a birthday at a refugee camp in the Netherlands. In the picture, three children sit at the table in front of a home baked cake as the mother and father pose behind them. Mom is dressed to impress with a giant white bow in her teased out hair as dad tries to make the children laugh by making bunny ears behind them. The scene perfectly encapsulates the modern Assyrian existence – In the midst of displacement, living in a transient city, and not knowing what the future holds, they seize the day, dress their best, and celebrate. 

Despite family separations, untimely deaths, and waging wars, #MesoMode collects moments of defiant happiness and stubborn joy. Assyrians know better than anyone that life must go on despite uncontrollable circumstances, and the spirit of discovering pleasure in the darkest moments shines through every portrait. Through the hazy fog of nostalgia, the strangers donning pencil skirts and papillons declare their lust for life to the viewer. I may not know the anonymous subjects of the photos, but their stories are familiar and their message is clear. Perhaps next time I visit an antique shop, I’ll head to the neglected basket in the back, and learn a thing or two from the black and white faces looking back at me.

Photos in order of appearance courtesy of: Eden Kiryakos, Kat Yachouh, Akadina Yadegar, Mariam Mansour, Susie G, Shamiran Khoshaba, Elona Oraha, Crystal Solayman, Sydney, Benny Aziz, Stephany Thomas

You can visit the digital #MesoMode archive here.

8 thoughts on “Portraits of Perseverance

  1. I’m loving this article and all the pictures. I hope in 50 years our kids and grandkids will do the same.

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  2. Beautifully written! Love this article and all the pictures. Assyrians have been through so much hardships migrating to different countries and you shed light on it in a beautiful way.

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